Luckily, this is a fantasy that is surprisingly easy to make happen in real life.

What sex parties cost

Before we talk sex, lets talk money.

Some parties also offer a blanket price for every person regardless of gender.

Others are free with memberships to the organizations that host them.

As a first step, try searching online for adult or swinger parties with your citys name.

What boundaries do you have?

If one of you starts to feel uncomfortable, whats the exit plan?

Most importantly, stick to your plan in the heat of the moment.

Consent is always important at legitimate play parties.

Nobody should ever touch you without permission and a no should always be respected.

If the vibes are off, leave.

Therearereputable parties hosted by pros who value respect and consent, so dont stay somewhere you dont feel comfortable.

What to wear to a sex party

Every party has a different dress code.

Lingerie is a safe bet, but black jeans and a nice top are also usually fine.

If youre unsure, ask the host.

Any good party will highlight consent above all.

Luckily, asking can be incredibly sexy.

Knowing that someone else wants you and is respectful enough of you to ask is hot.

As a general rule, do not join other hookups unless you have been invited or have gotten consent.

Additionally, some clubs have an ask once, and only once policy.

If someone says no, do not ask again.

Many parties have condoms and lube available, but pack your own just in case.

Respecting others and their health is extremely important, as is protecting your own.

I think its important for people to process that nervousness as excitement.

Remember, going to a play party doesnt mean you have to play.

I know plenty of people who attend our events just to meet people and be around sexual energy.

If you go into it with the mindset that you have to play, youre going to get nervous.

No matter where you go, you are the one in control of your experience.