Manifesting is a buzzy term, especially when it comes to finding love.
But what does it really mean tomanifest loveand is it actually possible?
Manifestation is the understanding that like attracts like.
Its a little woo-woo, but theres also so much science that now backs up these theories.
What most people dont understand is that they are attracting at all times.
Learning how to use it and create intentionally, however, is where life can get really interesting.
Manifestation doesnt work unless steps are taken to drive change, she says.
Theres no praying and wishing for the perfect partner to fall from the sky.
Who is your ideal partner?
If you want more trust, loyalty, or respect in your relationship, ask yourself why.
Likewise, if youre adamant you want someone with blonde hair and blue eyes, dig into why.
The trick is to do all of this from a place of feeling abundant, not lack.
Know that if youre doing this work, love is on the way.
Reframe the negative
Next, Kirsten recommends examining your current belief system.
Ask is this really the reality Im trying to create?
If not, reframe the negative into something that feels more akin to where you want to be.
If you still feel attached to your ex, find a way to let them go.
Let go of the anger you feel, or even the betrayal, and come back to love.
The time has come to stop settling for breadcrumbs in life, she says.
The universe is bringing you what you show it youre ready for.
Remember what it feels like to fall in love and let that fill your body.
you might also journal about your perfect day with this person, and really feel into it.
Dont be afraid to experiment with people outside of your usual jot down either.
Consider this stage as taking the new beliefs youve built out for a test drive.
And then…let go and be patient.
As with most things in life, it takes time to see results.
