Maybe youre just trying to hook up.

Maybe you want true love.

Maybe you want something in betweenlike a sex friend, who will feed your cats while youre on vacation.

Stop Ghosting and Date With More Empathy

Whatever it is, I think we can agree that making a goodfirstimpression is important.

And expecting to meet someone cool and nice is a great perspective to have.

The other side of that is having such high expectations you freak someone out.

You seem like youd be a great at raising children, or anything of that nature is a NO.

One time a guy Id never met looked me up on Facebook and commented on all my public posts.

Get to the date, dont get blocked.

Just make a plan in a reasonable amount of time and follow through.

At least, Im pretty sure thats what weirded him out.

Should I text and double check??

Bringing Your Baggage

Dating app bios feel like a secret language.

It must mean something to the right person when they read their match is fluent in sarcasm.

That doesnt do it for me, and thats fine.

If you are an adult human looking for love, youve probably been burned before.

These are things to work on in therapy, but the first step is self-awareness.

Maybe you’re free to, and thatd be hot.

Maybe you want to weed out anyone you will never politically align with.

You know what they both had in common?

They didnt pressure me at all.

Seeming confident, yet okay with nothing happening, is sexybut only if you really mean it.

I dated a woman for over a month, and we only made out once.

And so it kind of just drifted away.

Everyone is late, all the time, always.

All the tips above cant make up for the biggest deciding factor of allcompatibility.

Or so you’re free to at least get to second base.