The pet adoption process for my family was … unexpected.
To them, the cat was more exciting than the waterslide and the popsicles I had brought out.
They squealed, pet him, and followed him around.
My husband started putting out food and water.
My son named the cat Sammy.
Everyone started calling Sammyourcat.
But Pets Are Good for Kids!
There are manybenefits of having a pet around small children, my friends told me.
Theyll learn how to better socialize with others.
Plus, I knew my family members were sneaking Sammy into the house when I wasnt around.
And anyway, one friend said, he chose you.
You cant say no!
So, after much pleading and prodding, I finally caved.
We could keep him.
Okay, First, Rules!
He needed to get all his shots and get checked for fleas at the vet.
Third, if Sammy ever hurt the baby, he was out.
Those were my non-negotiables.
My son and my husband were, by then, besotted with Sammyso they signed.
Here are a few tips for creating your own pet contract:
Discuss the terms of the contract beforehand.
Maybe its easier for you to feed your pet in the afternoon if youre the first one home.
Maybe your kids would prefer to walk the dog after school.
If everyone has a say in the negotiation, theyll feel more vested in it.
Treat the event with real formality.
Have cake to celebrate!
Place the contract in a place where everyone can see it regularly.
Ours is on a shelf by Sammys food corner in the kitchen for easy viewing.
The biggest thing it did was manage everyones expectations.
If Sammy needs food or water, my son refills his bowls without whining.
(Mom, this is the best job in the world!
(Read: I never have to clean the litter box.
But then, of course, the little guy grew on me.
He also brings me dead lizards on the regular.
But I still dont clean the litter box.
