Blowjobs dont get the greatest depictions in the media, especially in porn.
Heres how to give a great blowjob and enjoy it at the same time.
Still, you want to find a position that feels good for you.
Keep your tongue broad and flat.
Dont worry about getting too sloppy at this point; the wetter the better.
Once youve gotten them lubed up, use your hand and mouth in tandem.
Most peoples mouths arent big enough to accommodate an average-sized penis, so your hand is essential for coverage.
Use it to stimulate the majority of the shaft, and your mouth to stimulate the head.
Firmly wrap your dominant hand around the base of their penis, like youre giving it a good handshake.
Bring your lips down to meet your hand.
This will be your standard move that you could return to at any point.
Get the balls involved
The testicles are often criminally neglected during oral.
As soon as you feel comfortable with your basic technique, start paying some attention to the balls.
you could do this with either your hand or your mouth.
First, take their entire scrotum into your non-dominant hand.
Roll the balls around in your hand while you continue sucking dick.
Give the whole sack a few soft tugs.
Then try focusing on their balls with your mouth.
Try taking each ball in your mouth for a minute.
Most men enjoy variety during a blowjob, butjust like with cunnilingus, everyone likes different things.
Use this exploratory time to make a run at get a sense of what he enjoys best.
Try out two different techniques and ask them, what do you like better?
Spend a little time focusing on the frenulum, which is the seam on the underside of their penis.
For many, this is the most sensitive area.
Make your tongue pointy, and lick up and down or side to side.
Try sucking directly on the frenulum itself.
Youll only need to move about an inch.
Gently slap the penis on your tongue.
This is a good move to try if your jaw needs a little break.
Alternate between using just your mouth and using just your hand.
Take your time exploring.
Your asshole feels good, people.
Still, I recommend getting explicit permission from your partner instead of just gunning for their butt.
Its not the asshole itself, so your partner may feel more comfortable being stimulated there.
The perineum usually responds best to firm pressure, so try pressing a single knuckle into that area.
If your partner is up for anal play, youll need touse some lube.
I think silicone lube works best in this instance.
Put a dab on your pointer finger, and slowly run your finger up and down your partners crack.
If your partner pushes their hips against your hand, try slowly inserting your finger.
You dont need to go in that far; even just an inch or two works.
Gently slide your finger in and out.
Expect a blown load in no time.
Seriously, anal play can really speed things up.
Decide what comes after
Ah, the age old swallow or spit debate.
Id also invite the spitters out there to consider the Golden Rule.
Plus, it can quickly turn into an acquired taste.
Theres nothing better than knowing your partner is genuinely enjoying having your dick in their mouth.
One of the most effective ways you’re free to show your enthusiasm is by initiating the blowjob.
Surprise them when he walks in the door or when he wakes up in the morning.
When youre out at dinner, whisper, can we just get out of here?
I need to wrap my lips around your dick as soon as possible.
Keep that enthusiasm going once youre mid blowjob.
Moan loudly and energetically.
Look them in the eyes and smile.
Take their penis out of your mouth and rub it all over your body.
Keep telling them how hot it makes you to be pleasuring them.
Youll know when youve really turned a corner with your blowjob technique when you do genuinely enjoy it.
