Youve got problems, Ive got advice.
This advice isnt sugar-coatedin fact, its sugar-free, and may even be a little bitter.
Welcome to Tough Love.
This week we have a man whos unhappy with his wifes career in the adult entertainment industry.
I simply want to give you the tools you oughta enrich your damn lives.
If for whatever reason you dont like my advice, feel free tofile a formal complaint here.
Now then, lets get on with it.
We do not have money issues.
Great sex every other day.
She has a learning disorder and never could excel in the professional world.
Looks and a hefty dose of narcissism is all there is.
My wife is an outstanding mother to our children.
Thats all there is to it.
There are a lot of risks involved in sex work, so its understandable to be concerned.
Also, this is going to be hard to explain to your kids, if they found out.
So you need a different way to approach this.
First, you better stop treating this situation like a relationship nuclear bomb.
Outside of this problemhowever horrible it may seem to youyour life sounds great.
Second, you should probably look at this situation from her perspective.
Why do you think shes doing this in the first place?
It could be that she wants some attention that you havent been giving her.
Or perhaps its because shes a little bored with your perfect life and wants something more.
Shes a great mother, awesome, but maybe she wants to be more than that.
Dang, LiSF, she wants to be good at something besides just being your wife.
So, instead of asking her to change for you, see if theres a way to compromisewith herhere.
I doubt her intention is to make you miserable.
Its obvious she wants something more.
Help her find it, or accept her for who she is now and move on.
