Browsing on dating apps can be fun, but the chat box can also be intimidating.
How much is too much small talk?
Whats a good way to make your intentions clear without beingtoodirect?
Youre allowed to drag out the text-relay stage as long as you want!
Hell, you dont ever even have to meet up if you dont want to.
Just dont be surprised if the other persons intentions or interests dont align with yours.
Theres no rule that says you cant.
Youre allowed to drag out the text-relay stage as long as you want!
Hell, you dont ever even have to meet up if you dont want to.
Just dont be surprised if the other persons intentions or interests dont align with yours.
Ghosting is never cool, but people have been unmatched for less.
Lets be real here.
Most of us have friends whove done this, if we havent done it ourselves.
If a date is worth it, theyll understand you concerns.
If they protest, move on to the next match.
If you still plan to, have a safety plan in place.
Snap a photo of the persons license plate and forward it to your most trusted pals.
Share your location with them using Find My Friends, Snapchat, or another app.
Whatever it takes to prioritize your safety, do that.
In fact, do all that stuff even if youre meeting in public.
If a date is worth it, theyll understand you concerns.
If they protest, move on to the next match.
Advance the connection incrementally
You dont have to stick with the apps chat feature.
Steph gives her phone number to matches after about five exchanges on a dating app.
If youre comfortable giving out your number, texting could be a slightly more intimate way to communicate.
Remember, though, that your number is tied to you pretty closely.
Consider a third-party texting app like Google Voice if giving out your real number makes you a little nervous.
it’s possible for you to also connect on social media.
Seeing how someone presents themselves on their socials is a great way to feel out if youll actually vibe.
It also makes first dates less awkward!
Most importantly, do what feels natural and safe to you.
If someone is making you feel uncomfortable, unmatch them and move on.
If you havent noticed, there are plenty more people on the apps.
