I like people, but Ive always been kind of shy and I cherish my alone time.
It was fine for a while, but then I got lonely.
Worse, I developed mild social anxiety.
Even a trip to the grocery store seemed like an obstacle.
I had to do something about it.
Despite being an introvert, interacting with coworkers is one thing I miss most about having a traditional job.
Plus, those doses of interaction made life a little easier.
Even if you dont get depressed, though, too much time alone can just be a bummer.
For example, fellow Lifehacker writerStephanie Leeis one of my favorite work buddies.
We meet up frequently, chat about our work, and evencollaborate on articles.
Its the same kind of interaction I would have with a coworker in an office.
Your work buddy doesnt necessarily have to be a remote worker, either.
Once a week, I work with another friend of mine.
It might be better tofind and join a coworking space.
Whenever you’re free to, choose phone or Skype to communicate with people.
It can also help you plan priorities for the day.
This way, you actually leave the house in the process.
I have a bad habit of eating lunch at my desk every day.
Plus, sometimes Ijust go to the grocery storeand pick up food I wouldve had at home anyway.
I still get out of the house, but I spend less money.
And for a while, thats what I thought networking was all about.
It doesnt have to be, though.
And thats actually a better way to approach it if you fear social interactions in the first place.
For example, I recently networked with a fellow money writer.
We didnt ask each other for any favors, we didnt schmooze.
We talked about writing, our families, and social issues.
It was fun, interesting, and I legitimately enjoyed the connection.
Join aFacebook career group.
Find andjoin a conferencein your industry.
Or justform your own networking group.
Thatnovelty is good for you: it improves your memory, makes you happy, and motivates you.
The easiest way to do this?
Sayyes to new things more often.
The point is, novelty is a big part of making sure you dont fall into the hermit trap.
Its not just about leaving your house, but also your comfort zone.
However, its crucial for the sake of your own productivity and, more importantly, your mental health.
