Decluttering old or useless junk might make you feel jubilant and free, but not everyone shares that mindset.
We take spring cleaning very seriously at Lifehacker.
Lets clean things up, shall we?
It will feel like a personal attack, instead of a joint effort to tidy up the place.
That way youre planting seeds for a decluttering mindset.
They need to learn slowly and gradually that its not the end of the world when something goes away.
Again, this needs to be a positive, open discussion about the thing.
Here are some question examples:
Why do you feel like you should probably keep this?
Whats your goal for this?
When was the last time you used/looked at this?
Is there someone else that might get more use out of this?
After youve got a better understanding of how they feel about the item, you could explain your perspective.
Tell them what bothers you about keeping it around.
Dont just say, I hate it.
Give them a good reason why the item makes you feel negatively.
The key to this working is that no one is perceived as the bad guy in the situation.
Its two people with differing opinions on whether an item is right for the home.
But dont hold your breath.
Be ready to make a deal with them.
Maybe they can keep that particular item if youre allowed to get rid of another.
Suggest this method for items you want your cohabitant to toss.
Put some of your own clutter in the box, then ask them to stick their items in.
And if you manage to sell their stuff, theyll appreciate the extra money in their pocket.
In communal areas, all parties have to agree on the items there.
you might emphasize the fact that these areas will be easier to clean if theres less clutter.
In personal areas, individuals can keep whatever they want in there, within reason.
Its their job to clean that area, and you never have to set foot in there.
