There are few topics that can evoke such widespread and intense anxiety as penis size.
Just about every manregardless of the actual size of his penisworries about being too small.
The Numbers
First, lets talk pure numbers.
5.2 inches, to be exact.
Having a bigger penis doesnt equate feeling more pleasure during sex.
The majority of nerve endings in a womans genitals are focused in the clitoris.
There are so few nerve endings in the vaginal canal that there isnt even a scientific tally of them.
Penetration itself isnt the most pleasurable activity for women because it doesnt create very much clitoral stimulation.
In fact, 70-80% of women cant orgasm from penetration alone.
A larger penis doesnt do any better of a job creating clitoral stimulation than a smaller penis does.
Sure, there are people who would prefer a larger-than-normal penis.
But penis size isnt a deal-breaker for the overwhelming majority of people.
Would you dump your partner solely because of the size of her labia?
Allow your partner to see you in the same way.
The anxiety management recommendation that I most frequently give is to practice mindfulness.
I like using the appHeadspacebecause it actually teaches you how to be mindful.
It uses a lot of very practical explanations that are easy to understand.
Headspace has an introductory series that you’re able to try for free.
In particular, you may want to check out their series about anxiety management.
Ive worked with a number of clients who torture themselves by doing internet research on penis size.
That may even be how you found this article!
This kind of research is of course not helpful, and tends to make anxiety much worse.
you’re able to also block yourself from the penis size websites and forums you usually visit.
Focus on improving your manual stimulation and oral sex skills.
Find the right sex position for your penis.
In general, you want to look for positions where you could get deep penetration.
Having her legs up in the air can also help you stay inside.
When you have intercourse, focus more on grinding than on in-and-out thrusting.
Use a cock ring.
A cock ring can help your penis feel larger by trapping blood in your shaft.
To use one, you get erect, then put the ring around the base of your penis.
Some models are designed to wrap around your testicles as well.
I recommend a simple neoprene version with a snap closure.
Try a penis extender or sleeve.
These products slip over your penis like a condom, increasing your size.
Theyre usually studded for additional stimulation for your partner.
confirm you get one made of out medical-grade, body-safe silicone.
