Hours after he was born, my sons image was all over the internet.
Some of the posts were by relatives, while others were by friends wishing to share in our joy.
Not one photo out there had my consent to be published.
I cant say I havent made my own bad decisions on social media.
Some parents found the picture downright hilarious, but most people were just grossed out.
Those experiences got me thinking.
I knew I didnt want anyone sharing pictures of my child that I didnt approve.
But it was clear that I didnt always have the best judgment on what to post, either.
I love keeping my friends and family in the loop by sharing images, but where is the line?
Some parents are completely okay with theirtoddler becoming the next viral sensation.
Others are like me and keep online images of their children to a minimum.
Maybe you fall somewhere in between.
Wherever your own line may be, its important to consider the possible consequences of oversharing.
Social media is no different.
Ask your child if they are comfortable with what you want to share about them before posting.
If your child isnt old enough to talk, consider the embarrassing throwback scenario.
How would you feel ifyouwere the child, and your parents showed that image to all of their friends?
If the thought causes the slightest hesitation, you should probably reconsider your post.
Its also important to verify those close to you seek approval before sharing images of your children as well.
Consider the Possible Long-Term Consequences
Online record-keeping makes images and videos accessible almost indefinitely.
Do not use your childs image in controversial materials or anything that can be seen as divisive.
You do not want them to have to live with long-term consequences of your one-time decision.
Consider the Possibility of Misuse
It is really easy for photos to be used for unintended purposes.
Journalist David French saw images of his 7-year-old daughterphotoshoppedin gas chambers after he opposed Donald Trump.
That goes for Facebook and Instagram check-ins.
If you want to share highlights of your childs life, do so without including all the details.
The most important thing to consider when posting images of your child issafety over their shareability.
