A while back, I wrote about how toset up a threesome.
Even though threesomes are one of the most popular fantasies, they can be remarkably tricky to pull off.
Heres how to make your threesome as enjoyable as possible.
Just start with this simple question: What are you hoping for?
you could even plan out your entire threesome beforehand.
Plus, it can be really hot to walk through the details of what youre going to do together.
A cuddle or make-out session might be a great way to feel into your chemistry with each other.
Or you might think your threesome will be more enjoyable if youre high.
But I highly, highly recommend being sober, at least for your first threesome.
Threesomes can be surprisingly complex and evocative.
Its a good idea to talk about your STI status with each other.
Dont share toys unless youre using and swapping out condoms with them.
Dont move from an anus to a vagina without washing up or changing a condom.
Youre not going to know exactly what to do every single moment of the interaction.
Expect that there will be awkwardness, and youll be fine.
make a run at be sensitive to those dynamics, and check that everyone feels involved.
Throughout your threesome, keep talking to each other, see to it everyone is enjoying themselves.
Remember that preferences and boundaries can change in an instant.
Communication is absolutely necessary for having safe and pleasurable sex, and it can be really hot too.
Emphasize Aftercare
Before having your threesome, make a plan for what you want to do afterwards.
If youre in a relationship, are you open to letting your third spend the night?
Do you want to have a private check-in with your partner?
At the very least, take a few minutes to ask each other, How was that for you?
Attend to any feelings or reactions that may have come up.
