Saying yes to forever with the love of your life is the easy part (we hope).
Saying yes to thedress, however, is not as simple as television would like to make it seem.
But thereisa perfect dress out there for youheres how to find it.
She knew so certainly, in fact, that she walked in with a specific style number.
As soon as I saw the dress, I fell in love, she said ofher Pnina Tornai gown.
I knew instantly it was the one.
But dont despair if youre not among that percentage.
Dont stress too much about matching the wedding.
Just be yourself (but a fancier version!)
because it doesnt get any better than that, especially to the person marrying you.
Read that again:yourwedding day.
Its nice to be mindful of family traditions or cultural conventions, but this is still your day.
Wedding gown shopping is subjective, Ensminger said.
Not everyone is going to like the same gowns that you love.
As long as you feel like yourself and you feel beautiful and happy, thats all that matters.
Popovic said the same, and she said it emphatically: This is your day and no one elses.
Pick a dress, headpiece, veil, etc., thatyou want.
Do not pick anything for someone else just to make them happy.
This day is about you and your spouse-to-be and no one else.
Navigating familial relationships can be tricky, though.
You dont need to be told that; we all know it.
Stand firm on this one and focus on yourself, your day, and your love.
And wear what you want.
Dont expect the process to be quick
Trying on wedding dresses is fun, right?
Its a day or two of champagne and laughs with your friends and family members.
You get to put on a bunch of gorgeous gowns and play around with your personal style.
You get to take a photo for Instagram holding an Etsy-esque sign announcing your success.
Just so you know, the wedding dress ordeal is not over after that.
The process has only just begun.
Thats right: Alterations.
This dress is just for you, which means it has to fit your unique body.
I did add straps to my gown, as well as add a little more sparkle.
The alterations part was actually very cool.
Your betrothed is choosing to spend the rest of their life with you and loves you as you are.
Youre beautiful now and youre going to be beautiful on the big day.
Have fun with the people youdobring.
Try everything, she said.
Even if it isnt your style, you will never know unless you try.
Have fun; just enjoy the experience.
