Sure, several people graciously pointed out the fact that kids are super into bribery.
Maybe your friend needs you to babysit.
Or you must to prove to a date that kids love me!
Or, like me, you simply crave validation from people of all ages.
Commenterdigitalsandwich78adds that its enough to just let them talk about Roblox and nod your head.
No, I have no idea what my kids are talking about.
Show kids that youre listening, even if you dont fully understand what the hell theyre saying.
After all, we could all use some practice being more engaged, active listeners across the board.
As commenterDuke of Kentputs it, listening is so vitally important when talking with children and adults alike.
To do this,Duke of Kentoffered up a great tip: Channel your inner talk show host.
Start with an initial open-ended question and then go from there.
One of my favorites is: What are you reading right now?
Then: Whats it about?
or What would you have done if you were in that situation?
Then branch out with more from there.
If that doesnt work, When in doubt, ask, Who got in trouble at school today?
Youll discover that a little bit of gossip is fun for all ages.
pointing out their incredible chubby legs, or making small talk about their impeccable chubby cheeks, et cetera.
Once a kid is verbal, however, they want to feel like youre taking them seriously.
Many of you pointed out the fact that talking down to kids wont be received well.
Lifehacker commenterCrafty Noodleputs it nicely, saying you should talk to them like theyre another person youre meeting.
A kids sense for when youre being patronizing starts earlier than you think.
Dont hijack the vibe to make it on your terms.
And, apparently, kids are people, too.
This means asking about their passions and being authentic in your reactions.
Seriouslydont underestimate a seven-year-olds radar for bullshit.
