Whats all the fuss about?

Anal sex is pretty polarizing.

Some people can even have orgasms from anal play alone.

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It feels naughty.The still-taboo nature of anal sex undeniably contributes to the extra thrill of the experience.

Its something new to explore with your partner.Getting a little bored with your usual routine?

Anal will definitely shake things up.

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If your interest isnt slightly piqued by this point, I cant help you.

But if youre intrigued, read on!

You cant get pregnant, but youcantransmit STIs through anal sex.

Use a condom unless youre already fluid-bonded with your partner.

The hygiene factor is one of the biggest reasons people tend to shy away from anal sex.

A lot of guys are worried about poo-dick (yes, thats the official term for it).

But the key word here istraces.

Take a shower after your bowel movement.

Clean the outside of your asshole with a bit of soap and water.

Avoid anal if you have an upset stomach or if youve had some messy BMs recently.

If youre really concerned about cleanliness, you’re able to alwaysanally douchebeforehand to flush out your rectum.

Keep tissues within arms reach for easy clean-up.

In the end, youre probably way more paranoid about the cleanliness factor than necessary.

Do the usual things you do when youre naked together.

If youre the receiving partner, an orgasm beforehand will help your muscles relax.

Lube is non-negotiable for anal sex.

Lube will also prevent painful tugging and tearing of the skin.

Try a silicone lube likePjur Original Bodyglideor a water based lube likeWicked Jelle.

Put lube directly on the asshole itself, and onto the penis, strap-on, or condom.

Even if it seems like a laughable amount, its necessary.

Theyre the ones at risk of experiencing pain.

Dictating the pace and depth of penetration will minimize pain and ease any lingering nerves.

One of the best positions for first-time anal is doggystyle.

It allows the receiver to be in control of the movement, and go as slowly as possible.

Plus, doggystyle helps open up that whole area back there.

When youre getting started, go as slow as possible.

Pretend youre actually in slow motion, and try moving at half-speed.

The receiver should focus on keeping their muscles relaxed.

You may feel yourself instinctively tensing up, so keep taking deep breaths and trying to release that tension.

, Dont ever push yourself to keep going if it doesnt feel right.

Keep working your way down the shaft of the penis slowly.

check that to keep communicating about what feels good and what doesnt.

Nows also the opportunity to add more stimulation to other areas of your body.

Doggystyle and side-by-side are easy positions to do this.

Dont be concerned if the anus doesnt immediately return to its usual balloon-knot state.

Its just taken a bit of a beating, and needs some time to close back up.

Wipe yourself off with tissues, then take a trip to the bathroom to clean up more thoroughly.

Anal sex leaves one lingering present for the receiver: lube poops.

Your next bowel movement is probably going to feel like its sliding right out of your butt.

Farts can also feel different traveling down your lubed-up butthole.

But if you have a lot of blood, or ongoing pain, give your doctor a call.

Give butt love a chance!