One, the setting isnt right.
Two, Its too built up.
Its better to not have any expectations and go with the flow.
Dont get caught up on what it should look or be like.
And three, foreplay is skipped.
People can get too excited with all thats going on around them that they skimp on foreplay.
Foreplay is a really important step to build intimacy and excitement, and shouldnt be skipped."
But still, all this yearning for toe-curling shower sex can’t be all for nothing.
“Taking a shower together is a really intimate and sometimes vulnerable moment,” Lust says.
“Especially washing each other.
And intimacy is hot.
“Water is actually not a lubricant,” he says.
“Think about it; when you use water-based lube, its not just a bottle of water.
There are other ingredients in there that make it more viscous and last longer.
Shower water will quickly wash away water-based lube.”
However, he notes that “oil-based lubes are not compatible with condoms.”
But its still normal for things to need some practice to work themselves out!”
Also, “Use the shower head,” she says.
To help get you started, Lust suggests try standing.
“It’s simple but very enjoyable,” she says.
“Have one person lean against the shower wall while the other penetrates from behind.
If possible, she also suggests taking a seat.
“Maybe position the shower head slightly away so it isnt restricting anyones eyesight.”
Zane recommends theBOOTIE RING, which is a butt plug connected to a cock ring.
“Id insert the toy before heading into the shower.
For those into pegging, Lust suggests tryingSHARELITE.
“It is completely waterproof as it is made out of body-safe silicone,” she says.
Another toy Lust recommends isMayabyLove Not War.
“Since this toy is made of aluminum, it is great for temperature play too.
The head unscrews and can be submerged in hot or cold water.”
