Breasts can be pleasurable to play with for the one doing the playing and the breast-haver alike.
Some people can even have orgasms from breast play alone.
Others need breast play in combination with genital stimulation.
Heres your field guide to the breast.
Keep in mind that some people may not want you to play with their breasts.
For some people, its a matter of personal preference; for others, its a gender identity issue.
Trans and genderqueer folks may not want their breasts touched.
If they tense up or move your hand away, move on to other parts of the body.
Be sensitive to timing
Be aware that breast sensitivity can change throughout the month.
There will probably be certain points during the menstrual cycle where they feel much more sensitive than usual.
There may even be times when they are too sensitive for any sort of breast play.
Dont be surprised if your partner needs different things from you at different times.
Breasts also change a lot after a person has given birth and while breastfeeding.
I have never met anyone who enjoyed having their breasts squeezed this way (especially not assexual initiation).
hey dont treat your partners breasts like old-fashioned horns.
The same goes with kneading.
It just doesnt feel good for most women.
Remember Jon Hamms breast play move on Kristen Wiig inBridesmaids?
If you havent seen it, its the perfect example of lackluster kneading.
Dont pull that move.
In general, breast sensitivity comes from the skin, not from the fat of the breast itself.
So honking, kneading, and squeezing dont typically feel as great as stroking and kissing.
Work with clothing
You dont need to be in a rush to unclothe your partners breasts.
Rub their breasts over their shirt.
Spend some time tracing their collarbone with your finger, then kissing along it.
Touch and kiss along the sides of the breasts, without going straight for the nipple.
Thats a shame, because the underboob and side boob can both be exquisitely sensitive.
Im talking about the areas where the breast meets the ribcage.
This area tends to respond best to delicate touch.
Very gently trace a fingertip along this sensitive curve.
Start at the outer edge and slowly work your way around to the middle of the chest.
you might also do this with your tongue, or with light kisses.
If your partner pushes their body towards you or makes a lot of noise, try gradually increasing pressure.
Or just ask, Do you want more?
If they wants more intensity, try gently pinching the nipples between your thumb and forefinger.
Slowly increase the pressure, and ask them to tell you when its too much.
you could also gently twist the nipplesbut be careful with this move, as its pretty intense.
you’re free to lick, suck, and nibble on the breasts.
Try licking the curve from sideboob to underboob, or sucking or nibbling on the nipples.
If your partner likes a lot of pressure, try sucking and biting on their nipples.
Again, start off gentle, and gradually increase the pressure until you find what works.
Even running a silk tie or scarf over the breasts can feel great.
If your partner likes more intense nipple play, you’re able to buy nipple clamps or suckers.
Not knowing whats coming can be a wildly intense experience.
Or try using use lube or massage oil to help your hands really slide around on their breasts.
This can be especially hot while youre in the middle of another activity, like intercourse or fingering.
