Taking fire nudesis exhilarating, right?
Sending them is exciting and hot, as is receiving them.
Its all fun and games…until, sometimes, its not.
Use your judgement here.
Promise them that youll delete whatever you get from them, tooand confirm you follow through.
We all have exes.
They all have potentialkompromat.
It is what it is.
Your photos are out there, as are everyone elses.
The odds that someone is wantonly hawking them around are actually pretty low, unless they indicated otherwise.
Who has the time, really?
Vanessa Williams being stripped of her Miss America crown over nude images is the past.
Jennifer Lawrence refusing to apologize when hers appeared online is the future.
Want to ease the anxiety even more?
Lock down your social media for a while.
Shes been much calmer and has felt more in-control since she de-personalized her social media.
Still, it took a few weeks for her nerves to subside, so dont expect instant results.
Janely Martinez, a Utah resident, went through this a few years ago.
He began sending Martinez their own nudes as a taunt, long after theyd forgotten he even had them.
Whats more, he was sending photos they hadnt even sent him in the first place.
Anyone would, understandably, begin to lose their mind in this situation.
Hes a hurt person who will never get the help he needs.
I provided unconditional love to a person who only knew how to destroy and control things and people.
Since leaving him, I am happily married, medicated, and in regular therapy.
Its not my business.
The distributor is in the wrong,notyou.
I hope that for you, too.
Look up your states exact laws, then consider going to the police and filing a report.
There are even lawyers who specialize in revenge porn.
Google which ones are near you.
Goldberg,PLLC victims rights law firm.
And we can bring lawsuits against the perpetrator.
In short: You have legal options.
it’s possible for you to do whatever you want.
I really didnt realize I could do anything about it all those years ago, said Martinez.
Still, they didnt report it, even now, and feel at peace with that decision.
