Here are some things to consider when deciding when and how to explore your own power exchange fantasy.
Why power fantasies?
When addressing BDSM, its important to be detailed in your preferences; a checklist leaves little wiggle room.
Its important for my safety and the safety of those I interact with.
Shed shove the panties in my mouth and visions of my nana would come to my head.
Whatever you choose, focus on making sure you feel safe and comfortable.
Shed shove the panties in my mouth and visions of my nana would come to my head.
Nobody wants to dress up like a naughty nurse every Friday night.
You have to put a time limit on that shit.
So I sat him down and we decided wed only do it like a couple times a year.
Its not weird anymore and I got to change my character to [better] suit my desires.
Sometimes, limits also speak to a partners need for variety.
Nobody wants to dress up like a naughty nurse every Friday night, says Nicole F., 33.
You have to put a time limit on that shit.
Create an aftercare routine
If you never participated in aftercare, its time to start.
Aftercare doesnt mean the standard asksdid you come?
Checking in with both ourselves and partners is essential after engaging in physically and emotionally draining sex play.
I always bring snacks and Gatorade Zero, shares Bree S., 54.
And while were focused on improving our natural and safe fantasies, we can also begin to rebrand.
And if you throw in an orgasm?
