Each new generation seems to be more accepting of cannabis use, unsurprisingtrends show.

Heres how to start the conversation.

It seems like as long as he lives a healthy lifestyle, I guess it should be fine-ish.

First and foremost, the rational part of the brain isnot fully developed until around the age of 25.

Cannabis, even justa little bit, canharm that part of the brain.

And driving while intoxicated (on anything)is a huge risk.

Its also a misconception that cannabis is not addictive.

Sure, many people might try it a few times, and then decide its not for them.

So weed is bad news for teens.

How do you get that message through to them?

Here, you present them with facts and sound advice, and then let them weigh the risks themselves.

Figure out what you want in life.

Weigh the risks of using.

Know the truth and decide.

To help your teens better understand themselves, you should give them clear information about their individual risk factors.

you’ve got the option to also, subtly, remind them of their values and goals.

Be prepared for common arguments

Your teens will probably rationalize their stance.

If youre feeling heated, take a step back and come back to the topic once youre calm.)

They say

Im only doing it once in awhile on weekends, so its not a big deal.

You could say

What would make it feel like a big deal to you?

Why this works

This gets them to think about the future, and what their boundaries are.

It will give you insight into whats important to him or her.

Would you rather I drink alcohol?

Weed is so much safer.

Honestly, I dont want you doing anything that can harm you.

Im interested in knowing why you think weed is safer than alcohol.

This reminds your child that you care about his or her well-being.

Expressing genuine curiosity about their thought process is going to help them open up.

Your goal should be to find outwhyyour teens believe what they believe, and go from there.

No questions asked, youll come and get them.

Its important for them to know that even if they make bad choices, youll always be there.

Already, cannabis companies are using Instagram influencers to advertise their products andskirt regulations.

And this is only the start.

For reference, over 35 million posts on Instagram have been tagged #420.

However, its difficult to enforce this, especially as cannabis references are common in music and pop culture.

Know that what your teens are seeing on social mediadoes have an effect.

So attempt to stay in front of it.

(Is that person smoking?

What do you think about that?)