How to Teach Your Kid Social-Emotional Skills From Day One

Many first-time pandemic parents are worried: Are their children are on-track with their social and emotional skills?

But the good news is, there are ways parents can develop and bolster social-emotional learning from day one.

We know childrens social-emotional development is critical to their life success, says Dr. Kim.

Here are some of the concrete ways families can support social-emotional development throughout their childs early life.

Praise theprocessof problem-solving, and celebrate their persistence and determination.

Dr. Kim gives the following example: Good thinking!

You were very resourceful in opening the lid to that jar.

Sometimes it helps to use a dish towel to get a better grip.

Try opening it with this.

I know you want that toy.

But when we take toys from others they feel sad.

However, its important for kids to learn how to cope with difficult feelings they may have throughout life.

For example, a parent might say: I see youre mad you cant watch TV right now.

Its time to go to the store.

When you are done being mad, Ill help you put your shoes on.

Naming feelings helps kids recognize and have compassion for others whentheyexperience difficult emotions.

Model and practice empathy.Hand in hand with validating emotions is modeling empathy towards your child.

When you see they are upset, before entering into correcting the behavior, connect and empathize with them.

Inquire about their emotions.

Are you feeling frustrated because your coat wont zip?

Its okay to feel frustrated.

When you feel better, do you want me to help you with it?

Throughout, stay in communication with teachers and childcare providers to ensure the best possible outcome for your child.

What is social-emotional learning?#