Heres how to add mutual masturbation to your sexual repertoire.
There are so many benefits to mutual masturbation:
Its incredibly arousing.
Theres really nothing like watching your partner touch their own body and pleasure themselves.
Its less anxiety-inducing for you.
You dont have to worry about whether youre stimulating your partner in the right way.
it’s possible for you to just relax and fully enjoy watching your partner in the throes of pleasure.
It helps you become more comfortable with your own masturbation.
Youll feel more connected to your own body, and more confident.
Its something new to try in the bedroom.
Its always fun to shake up your old routines.
Many people have never tried mutual masturbation before, so it can be particularly thrilling.
Its the best way to teach your partner how to pleasure you, and how to help you orgasm.
For many people, its also the best way to ensure that you have an orgasm with your partner.
You may not be able to have an orgasm any other way.
Another option is to just go for it in the moment.
Once your partner is fingering you or giving you a hand job, put your hand over theirs.
Or you might try tag-teaming your body together.
or I want to show you what I do when Im thinking about you.
Toys are another great way to introduce mutual masturbation.
Whip one out, and ask your partner, Do you want to watch me use this on myself?
Then say you want to watch your partner touch themselves at the same time.
Or you’re able to give a shot to get your partner to go first.
After spending some time warming up, start touching your partners genitals.
Then slowly draw your hand back and say, Why dont you take over for a minute?
or I want to watch you touch yourself.
Keep alternating until they get more comfortable.
But this is just socialization.
Theres absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation.
In fact, its arguably the healthiest, safest, and most beneficial sexual activities.
And the sense of the taboo is exactly what can make it so hot.
Feeling like youre doing something naughty can be wildly thrilling.
If youre feeling nervous about trying it, kindly know that your partner is almost guaranteed to love it.
There are also ways to make it a bit easier in the moment.
Try turning down the lights or just using candlelight, so you dont feel so on display.
Or watch porn together, so youre not just watching each other.
Masturbating together at the same time can also feel more comfortable.
One partner starts masturbating.
If they want to have an orgasm, theyre not allowed to until their partner gives them the OK.
Try masturbating one at a time, and watching each other.
This ups the exhibitionistic/voyeur factor.
Surprise your partner by letting them catch you masturbating in bed at the end of the day.
This can also be a great way to initiate sex.
Have mutual masturbation be the main event.
In other words, have it be the way you end the evening.
Dont move on to intercourse or whatever else your default activity is.
Use mutual masturbation when you want to have a quickie.
It can be great when youre exhausted but still want to connect.
