Is there a good way to hit up the one that got away and rekindle the magic?
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Now that thats out of the way, lets get on with it.
I met this woman at a bar a few months back on a Saturday night.
We spoke for a few minutes, made each other laugh, exchanged numbers.
When I texted this woman for the first time she seemed pretty enthusiastic about meeting.
We rescheduled, then I got called out again.
It was three weeks before this woman and I could finally go on a date.
Usually when this happens, women lose interest before we hang out.
The fact that she still wanted to hang out after I cancelled so many times was astounding to me.
The date was awesome!
We had a lot in common, had the same sense of humor, and a lot of chemistry.
Unfortunately we were never able to hang out again.
My job sent me out again and I was gone for 10 straight weeks.
We kept up through text and calling at first, but over time it just faded out.
But I honestly dont know how to rekindle something thats been dead for two months.
What should I say?
Would I be a jerk?
Should I just move on and try with someone else?
The bad news is that she may have already moved on by now.
So, Traveller, send her a text message like:
Hey, its [your name].
I hope youre doing well!
Remind her that you guys had fun, and that you havent forgotten about the time you had together.
Also, manage your expectations before you hit that send button, Traveller.
You might only get a quick No thanks!
or you might get no response at all, which is totally justified at this point.
She doesnt owe you anything here, so keep that in mind.
