moment, no How could you lie to me???
It started with, Well, isnt that odd?
for a few years until I mustered the courage to ask Mom, Is Santa real?
What do you think?
she asked, thoughtfully.
Hmm, I said.
You know what I think?
I think Santa is real.
I think Santa is everywhere.
Santa is the spirit of Christmas, the spirit of giving.
How do you think that sounds?
Mom didnt admit a falsehood to meshe just let me in on a little secret.
When your child is ready, take them out for coffee, a solidly grown-up activity.
Next, talk em up
Say, You sure have grown an awful lot this year.
Not only are you taller, but I can see that your heart has grown, too.
Then, the post suggests you list a few examples of how empathetic and considerate your child is.
You probably have noticed that most of the Santas you see are people dressed up like him.
Some of your friends might have even told you that there is no Santa.
A lot of children think that because they arent ready to BE a Santa yet, but YOU ARE.
Ask, What are the best things about Santa?
and What does he get for all his trouble?
and ask them to choose someone they know and figure out something that person wants or needs.
Then, the newest Santa can get that item, wrap it and deliver itall in secret.
Because being a Santa isnt about getting credit but about unselfish giving.
Choose a new target each year.
But when is the right time?
The question remains, though: How will you know when your kid is ready?
Instead of waiting for them to ask outright, follow their cues.
When they start asking about the logistics of SantaWhat about houses without chimneys?
But theres a different Santa at each mall and store.
Caroline at school told me theres no Santa; why would she say that?theyre ready.
