Youve got problems, Ive got advice.
This advice isnt sugar-coatedin fact, its sugar-free, and may even be a little bitter.
Welcome to Tough Love.
This week we have a woman who recently learned something new about her possibly unfaithful boyfriend.
I simply want to give you the tools you better enrich your damn lives.
If for whatever reason you dont like my advice, feel free tofile a formal complaint here.
Now then, lets get on with it.
Hey Patrick,
Ive been living with my boyfriend for over a year now.
Everything had been great until these past few weeks.
It was in our bedroom previous to that.
Once again, he said he used it on himself.
I told him Im not buying his story and he needs to come clean.
I dont think that Im insane or crazy.
What is your advice?
By the way, he will not let me go near his back door
ever
.
Not even to tickle him so what am I supposed to think?
Hes being distant and engaging in behavior that is abnormal for your relationship.
Still, you should probably be very careful about any accusations you throw his way.
Hemightbe cheating, yes, but he might not.
Maybe he thought youd think hes less of a man.
Or maybe, just maybe, this is something very new to him as well.
Offer to be a part of this experience with him, and avoid judging him.
Youre not alone in this experience (just read this example,and this one).
If he really is using your toys, you two absolutely must have a chat about this stuff.
That is not cool!
Not cool at all.
To be honest, this pop in of behavior is the biggest red flag I see here.
