How to Take Charge of Your Health Care as an Adult

And if youre the parent in this scenario, it might be hard to step back. Heres a guide to help young adults take charge of their health care. Get out those Trapper Keepers and sharpen your No. 2 pencilsits Back-to-School Week! Okay parents, its just us here. Before your kid grows up and moves out, you canand shouldencourage some independence at the doctors. So as youre planning the visit, have your teen think of questions theyd like to ask....

September 14, 2017 · 3 min · 458 words · Michael Smith

The Kauri Driving Dams

The Kauaeranga Valley in New Zealand’s North Island was once covered in vast kauri forests. The trees were immense with thick, straight trunks. They had relatively few knots, and were easy to work and nail. Initially, the settlers cut the kauri trees that grew in isolation near the sea. The first shipment of kauri timber left New Zealand in November 1820. One way to transport them was to float them down rivers and streams....

September 14, 2017 · 2 min · 268 words · Christopher Matthews

What to Do Instead of Faking an Orgasm

Faking orgasms doesnt do anyone any favors. It doesnt help your partner learn what you actually need to feel pleasure, much less reach orgasm. And in a broader sense, faking orgasm contributes to unrealistic expectations about how orgasm actually works. Together, all of our faking is creating the illusion that orgasm happens easily and spontaneously. The problem is that faking orgasms can feel so damn convenient sometimes. If youre thinking about putting the kibosh on faking orgasms, heres what you should do instead....

September 14, 2017 · 3 min · 514 words · James Olson

I'm Slack CTO Cal Henderson, and This Is How I Work

Hes been programming (and blogging atiamcal.com) for 15 years. Like most computers at the time, it came with a BASIC interpreter, and I was fascinated. Within a few years I had decided that programming is what I wanted to do when I grew up. Ive been pretty obsessed ever since. Whats your workspace setup like? I have a desk in our headquarters, but Im rarely found there. Most of my days are spent in meetings....

September 13, 2017 · 3 min · 608 words · Jackson Gibson

Why the Underfunded 2020 Census Is a Civil Rights Issue

The census is inklaxon-level trouble. The decennial census, that once-every-ten-years count of the American population, is drastically underfunded. And what happens if its underfunded? Everyone who has dealt with this recognizes that this is whats happening. So what can we do? I spoke to couple of census experts for a citizens guide to getting the census on track. Call your reps Obligatory. Ive overseen the decennial census, and I know how the right pressure can move members of Congress....

September 13, 2017 · 2 min · 232 words · Christopher Riley

How to Deal With All the Bullshit on Social Media

Social media is a firehose of bullshit, because its a firehose of everything. Essential oils cure all diseases! Sharks are swimming on Houstons freeways! Okay, not really. Heres why we see so much garbage on social media and what to do about it. Theres a lot of bad advice, bad science, and bad logic out there. Sharpen your pencils and take a seatBullshit Resistance School is in session. Why Theres So Much Bullshit Out There You see this stuff because someone shared it....

September 12, 2017 · 2 min · 330 words · Donna Schaefer

How to Deal With School Bullies of All Ages

Here are a few approaches you’re able to take. Get out those Trapper Keepers and sharpen your No. 2 pencilsits Back-to-School Week! He says bullying is an issue he encounters regularly with children during treatment. So, if you feel alone in this, know that youre not. Almost everyone gets bullied at some point or anothermyself includedand almost everyone gets through the experience just fine. It may not seem like things can get better right now, but they will....

September 12, 2017 · 2 min · 377 words · Beth Wilson

How to Deal With the Anxiety of Not Being Able to Exercise

Not working out for a day already makes you antsy. Not working out for a week or more? Oh, no, panic! Hey, everything is going to be OK. Really. But that nice gym went away when Idecided to vagabond around the world. Thats when theanxiety about losing my fitnesslatched on hard. Its funny how fitness has a way of both being a purveyor of confidence and its executioner. The thought terrified me, especially when I imagined all of my hard work and progress just melt away....

September 12, 2017 · 2 min · 290 words · Karen Weaver

How to Kick Your Schlubby, Do-Nothing Boyfriend to the Curb

Youve got problems, Ive got advice. This advice isnt sugar-coatedin fact, its sugar-free, and may even be a little bitter. Welcome to Tough Love. I simply want to give you the tools you’re gonna wanna enrich your damn lives. If for whatever reason you dont like my advice, feel free tofile a formal complaint here. Now then, lets get on with it. Hi Patrick, I need some advice with my current relationship....

September 12, 2017 · 2 min · 336 words · Dennis Cohen

The Bullet-Scarred ‘Operation Anthropoid’ Church in Prague

The concrete wall around the window is fractured and there are bullet holes around it. Bullet-scarred window of the Church of Saints Cyril and Methodius in Prague where the attackers were cornered. He was a ruthless Nazi whom Hitler himself described as “the man with the iron heart”. Thousands of people were arrested and executed. Others were sent to concentration camps. His eventual goal was to deport up to two-thirds of the Czechs to regions in Russia or exterminate them....

September 12, 2017 · 2 min · 335 words · Jared Middleton

This App Lets Nonverbal Kids Communicate Exactly What They Want

Royden James has had the thought before. Hes sure other parents in his situation have, too. I wish you could just fucking tell me what you want. James son is 6, and has autism. Is he asking for the green spoon or a glass of water? Does he miss certain people or things? What does he wonder about? What does he hope for? Why is he crying? What can a parent do?...

September 12, 2017 · 2 min · 339 words · Lori Chavez

What Is the DSA?

Maybe youve got a few particularly vocal friends who keep posting about the Democratic Socialists of America. So, towards that effort: what exactly is the DSA? Heres a short course. Chaptersexistin almost every state. What does democratic socialism mean? In some circles, the term socialism has become almost derogatory. Its the term your crazy right wing uncle uses to describe anyone supporting universal health care, for instance. Its Stalin or the cause of the chaos in Venezuela....

September 12, 2017 · 2 min · 299 words · Elizabeth Dixon DDS

Ten Tricks for Checking Your Phone Less

Marketer Josh Spector wrote aboutten habits that help him control his phone use. Acquiring these habits is hard, so were adding some tricks and apps that will enforce your self-control. Stop checking your phone in the car. Stick your phone in the glove compartment. Android and Windows Mobile come with adriving modethat switches you to voice controls. iOS 11, coming out September 12, will include an automaticDo Not Disturb While Driving mode....

September 11, 2017 · 3 min · 491 words · Ashley Smith