Think of the aperitif as a stage setter.

According to Vinepair,there are two major factorsto keep in mind: sweetness and strength.

A too-sweet drink can feel like youre having dessert first, and alcohols sense-dulling abilities can dampen your tastebuds.

This doesnt mean that martinis are off the menu, just limit it to one.

Though not a vermouth,Lillet Blancis another fortified option that can be enjoyed without much fussing.

Amontillado-style Sherryis another tasty fortified wine you may want to get to know.

(Avoid the syrupy, aggressively purpleLindemans Framboisethough; its really more of a fruit beer than lambic.)

I would, however, urge you to consider the spritzer.

Complex, somewhat bitter liqueurs with a little carbonation snap your mouth to attention without being too boozy.

If you dont take to Camparis unique flavor right away, try adding a splash of something sweet likeSt.

Germainto balance it out.

Instead, it tastes earthy, not vegetal, and a bit bitter.

These babies feelveryspecial, and are a perfect beginning to a memorable evening.

A note of caution:These arent the most common cocktails, so read the scene.

You would be ordering an Elizabeth Taylor, but without the obscure name.

The after dinner drink can serve a variety of functions.

It was a delicious experience, but made for a very unpleasant bus ride through Florence.)

If Sauternes proves hard to find,Monbazillacis an excellent backup plan.

(Um, yes to that last suggestion.)

(There is also a milder, sweeter, yellow Chartreuse, but thats only 80 proof.)

It has legions ofdiehard fans, who claim the stuff gets to work in under a minute.

Oh, and they also havereally sweet commercials.

Finally, dont feel compelled to follow any rules.

If you want to start the evening with a Grasshopper, then order a damn Grasshopper.

Photos byFranz Conde,Sam Howzit,Adrian Scottow,Len Matthews, andJoakim Jardenberg.