Heres everything you should probably know about putting a foreign object in your anus.
This is the second in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play.
you might see the other posts in the series as they come outhere.
Picking Your First Toy
Theres a whole world of anal sex toys out there.
Most of them fall into three categories:
Plugs.
These are designed to be inserted into your rectum and left in place.
you could also move them in and out if youd like.This cutieis a fantastic toy for a beginner.
Some toys have built-in vibrators for even more stimulation.
TheLELO Billyis an investment at $129, but its a high-quality product.
These are typically used with harnesses to stimulate P-in-A intercouse.
The small version ofthis dildois great for beginners.
Look for medical-grade silicone or stainless steel.
Your anal sphincters are quite strong, and they canpull sex toys up into your rectum.
ThisTantus Neois a prime example of a flared base.
you’re free to always go bigger later, but your first toy should be relatively slender.
If you want to go classy,these njoy plugsare incredible.
Get to know the area a bit before you jump in putting stuff up there!
Any toys that are going into your butt need to be thoroughly cleaned before (and after) penetration.
If youre nervous, Id suggest being the one to hold it, since youll have more control.
Next, find a position that gives you good leverage.
The arm thats operating the toy will need to stretch further than you usually do when you masturbate.
Sitting up in bed with some pillows propped behind you is usually doable.
If youre with a partner, they can sit between your legs.
You want to be relaxed and turned on before venturing backdoor.
ensure you haveyour trusty lube nearby.
If youre using a stainless steel toy, it’s possible for you to go forsiliconeor water-based lube.
Next, whoever is wielding the toy should pick a designated butt-hand.
Put a nickel-sized amount of lube on your fingers, and apply the lube to your anus.
Then thoroughly saturate your toy with lube.
You want it so lubey that it practically slips out of your hand.
Lube is your friend when it comes to anal, and you really cant use too much.
Just hold it there for a few moments while your body adjusts to the pressure.
If this feels painful or like theres too much resistance, slowly pull the toy out.
Hold it against your anus while you keep masturbating.
Once it feels like the toy is fully inserted, try taking your hands off of it.
Some toys will stay in place snugly, while others may get pushed around a bit by your sphincters.
you’re able to keep the toy stationary, and enjoy the sensation of fullness it creates.
Or try moving it in and out or around in circles.
This is where having a towel beneath you comes in handy!
If it doesnt come out on its own, ease it outslowly.
This will be especially noticeable if you used a girthy toy.
Dont worry, your butthole will return to its usual puckered state in just a few minutes.
Just pretend its saying WOW!
Congratulations, youve now leveled-up in your anal adventures!
Illustration by Jim Cooke.
