Our esteemed sex columnistVanessa Marinis always willing to delve into any topic we ask her to.

And we do meandelve.Here are some of our favorites from 2018.

How to Eat Ass

The anus has nerve endings and enjoys being stimulated.

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And for the record, people of any gender or sexual orientation can enjoy rimming.

We really started 2018 off with a bang.

How Men Can Last Longer During Sex

attempt to build some teasing into your masturbation practice.

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Think of arousal on a 1-10 scale, with 1 being barely turned on and 10 being orgasm.

The majority of nerve endings in a womans genitals are focused in the clitoris.

There are so few nerve endings in the vaginal canal that there isnt even a scientific tally of them.

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How to Give a Lazy Blowjob

… ask your partner to masturbate for you.

The further they get themselves along their path to orgasm, the less work you have to do.

Good tip in general: Never say that last part.

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That may work at certain points of our lives or relationships, but its not a successful long-term strategy.

Your sex drive needs your ongoing support to make it flourish.

Sure, its another maintenance taskbut this one should be relatively fun.

Responsive sex drive types arent low desire; they just have different needs to feel desire.

Heres an important distinction that might actually save a relationship.