Some people (like myself) would respondHahaha!
But, despite all evidence to the contrary, I want to believe.
Yet apparently, according to parenting experts, it can be done.
Here are a few ways parents can stop giving constant reminders and get their kids to listen.
When youdoneed to get out the door, bend down and make eye contact with your child.
Touch, smile, and use a neutral tone of voice when making your request.
Especially if those things have been said in an annoyed, borderline shouty voice.
Listen to yourself for a day.
Track how many times you correct, direct, or command your children to do something.
Its probably more than you thinkand will help you understand why theyve stopped listening.
Pare down the number of verbal corrections and requests you make.
In addition to assigning kids tasks, Lewis prompts parents to ask kids what skills theyre interested in learning.
Keep it short
Kids dont do well with lengthy requests.
(Who does, really?)
Get your snack ready, kindly.
Keep it light
Whenever possible, inject playfulness into your communication.
(Or some other such minimally time-consuming silliness.)
Using non-verbal cues can also be effective, i.e.
placing notes that say, Im sad because I miss my friends!
on clothes that are strewn on the floor instead of in the hamper.
Give warnings
Its no fun to get interrupted when youre fully absorbed in an activity.
And they will get there, in time.
But sometimes a little help, or modeling, goes a long way.
Others go along with activities theyve chosen, like playing soccer or learning piano.
When they bemoan those responsibilities (and attempt to direct their frustration at you) remind them oftheirchoice.
(And that you’re able to pull them out at any time.)
And that might be a good thing, so they understand why its better to manage their time wisely.
