And, as it turns out, there are some great lessons buried beneath all that cringe-y humor.
Dev asks Christine questions about her job at the Dog Hotelsomething she said she didnt want to talk about.
Dont get high or get too drunk on a first date, especially if youre not doing it together.
Dont tell people why you canceled plans if its going to be off-putting.
This is one of those instances where its totally fine to say you had something personal come up.
Dont disappear for 15 minutes to handle work stuff.
This is something thats inevitable at times, but best avoided.
If it happens, apologize as best it’s possible for you to.
It should be something that starts a conversation.
Hi doesnt do that when youre not face to face.
Dont ramble on about things you know your date isnt interested in.
Dont treat the wait staff like crap, then act like theyre the ones being rude.
Dont use dating appswhile youre on a date.
This is something that shouldnt have to be said, but it does actually happen.
Dont use dating apps and go on dates when youre not interested in dating.
Dont sleep with someone you have a moral issue with just because you want to get some.
Just double-check your jokes are tasteful.
Its important to clarify the issue if one or both parties are unsure!
Do go for a change of location if things are going well.
First dates should start at a bar, coffee shop, ice cream parlor, etc.
where you’ve got the option to talk and get to know each other.
Resetting your environment resets the mood now that youre hopefully a little more comfortable with each other.
Of course, Ansari is no stranger to breaking down how the modern dating scene operates.
But theres still a lot to glean from this episode, even if you havent read the book.
Its basically a crash course everybody should take when theyre single and ready to mi-well, swipe.
