Most peoples only association with sex clubs are the creepy scenes fromEyes Wide Shut.
But sex clubs can actually be quite varied, and a lot of fun.
Sex clubs are, like the name implies, clubs where people go to have sex.
Sometimes temporary sex clubs are hosted in private residences.
Some people enjoy the exhibitionistic thrill of having sex in front of other people.
Others enjoy the voyeurism of watching people have sex.
Some couples go to sex clubs to play with each other, while others go to play with strangers.
Some parties are designed around a certain theme, like a masquerade ball or bondage.
Heres everything you should probably know about visiting your first sex club.
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Sex clubs are more plentiful than most people think.
Certain sex clubs also require you to go through an system process before youre allowed through the doors.
You may need to submit a written program, photos of yourself, or even do an interview.
Theyre not wild free-for-alls.
Most clubs will have a website where the rules are listed in detail.
If not, it’s possible for you to always email or call the club and ask.
What the dress code is.
Some clubs are strict about this.
If nudity is mandatory, or if youre allowed to keep all or some of your clothes on.
What specific activities are and arent allowed.
For example, some clubs wont allow masturbation in certain places.
If different rules apply to different areas of the club.
Sometimes certain areas will be designated play zones, and other areas are for socializing.
What you are and arent allowed to bring with you.
For example, if you could bring your own toys.
If singles are allowed, or if its couples only.
If theres a certain event or theme during the night you want to visit.
You dont want to be surprised by a bondage night if thats not your thing.
If phones are allowed.
Most places will ask you to check them, or will cover your camera lenses.
Some clubs even give tours or meet-and-greets for newbies, so you may want to ask about that too.
A sex club is not a once-in-a-lifetime experience; you’ve got the option to always go back.
Dont pressure yourself to do anything before you feel ready.
Plenty of people take it slow their first few times.
Are you going to play together the whole time, or can you each slip off privately?
If you hook up with other people, what activities are you allowed or not allowed to do?
Are you leaving together, or with other people?
I recommend bringing your own condoms, lube, dental dams, or gloves.
Showing up at a sex party doesnt mean a person consents to doing anything and everything.
If you want to touch someone, ask first.
If you want to watch someone up close, ask first.
If you want to dive headfirst into the middle of an orgy, ask first.
Think of it like the gym; wipe down any surface that your skin has come into contact with.
Many clubs typically have wipes, but you may want to bring a little travel pack of your own.
Give yourself the space and permission to feel whatever feelings might come up for you.
