A few snips later, I felt triumphant.
Sure, a week from then I paid an expert to fix it.
Its not just heartbreak, however, that inspires us to chop.
Were talking about that impulsive urge to justget rid of it.
I craved something new.
Novelty feels good, after all, and it can evenmake you more productive.
Hair is also symbolic.
Hairstyle is often a signifier of gender and culture, Appio told me.
I spent 2010-2014 growing out a botched, impulsive cut.
Sometimes it feels great; other times Ive regretted it.
From a psychological perspective, though, isnt impulsive behavior usually frowned upon?
I straighten my hair every time I wash it now, and I dont enjoy doing that.
To determine whether a behavior is helpful or unhelpful, its important to consider how it functions for you.
It can just be a mildly adventurous experience worth having.
It also feels good to take control.
Change is good:Novelty can be a great thing.
It can make you more productive, motivated, and creative.
Your hair, as a symbol, is not the actual thing that defines you.
When you screw up your hair, you remember this.
People who tend to be perfectionistic or indecisive due to overthinking can benefit from trying out more spontaneous behavior.
Itll grow back, yknow?
If you want to put a little more thought into your decision, ask yourself some questions.
Have you done this before?
What was your experience?
For example, do I have a need to feel more grounded or in control?
What do I risk by making this change, and am I willing to accept those risks?
Are there other, more effective ways for me to meet the needs I have?
Another good question: Are you drunk?
When youre bored and buzzed, regrettable decisions often follow.
Or you just might not feel like hearing, Omg you cut your hair?!
(Mulandidnt book an appointment!)
If you insist on doing it yourself, at least follow some guidelines.
Consider this when you schedule a time to chop.
It will probably take longer than you think.
Dont Forget to Donate
Finally,dont skip donating it.
There are a handful of charities that collect hair for wigs.
you’ve got the option to also ask your local salon for recommendations.
Some organizations have requirements about whether the hair has been dyed, so check the charitys requirements.
